April 12, 2021

Welcome

Hello there and welcome to my website.

This is a first post, so I don't know what is going to happen with this site. Maybe it will succeed, maybe it will fail. But I want to welcome you here. 

This is a project which I am running in my spare time at the moment. Right now, it is called “The Better Man Club”. It sounds a bit culty and maybe a bit lame, but I think it’ll probably change in the future; let's go for it for now. 

 I want this site to help others. More accurately, I want to help you get what you want. I guess that sounds like a life coach, but I don't think I am qualified to have that title. In fact, life coach sounds a bit pretentious and sounds like you know everything which you don't. I certainly don’t and not even claiming to be. So, a better word may be “health” coach but I’m not using it in the typical fashion; I am using it in a very broad way. 

For example, when I use the word health, I use it to include things like fitness, nutrition, diet, love, relationships, spiritual (or maybe soul work), mental and well-being. This is a subset of the topics I may want to cover in future. 

My previous site featured a lot about love and pickup. It included my experiences with that, but I am not going to focus on that on this website. It may be covered slightly but this site has a more holistic approach to life in general and makes it a very small subset of this. 

This site is about becoming the best version of yourself and loving yourself for who you are. As you make decisions that make you feel good about yourself, you generally make decisions that work in your favour. This includes making yourself more attractive and if you want to; and make bolder decisions. I won't ignore pickup, but I think that the more you love yourself, the better you do in love and relationships. And I will let you know what this is like as I have not got the experience yet. 

I am not a medical professional so will not give out information about health in that sense. The only reason why I use in in the broad sense is because I don’t have a better word. Perhaps I have butchered it. Perhaps if you have a better idea for the word, let me know in the comments. 

I also don’t claim to be a know-it-all or a guru. I do not walk in your shoes; I don’t know everything and I don’t have your experiences. However, I want to give you the tools to help yourself.  

Just as a fitness trainer can't do the work for you, I can't do the work for you. You have to do the work yourself. You will also have to keep doing the work to see results. 

For now, I am only focussing on men, mainly because I am one and I don't have the same experience women. This may change in the future but for now it’s only for men.  

I hope that you enjoy this site, to see it evolve and look forward to seeing you soon. 

David 

One comment on “Welcome”

  1. Thanks David really enjoyed reading this so far , you strike a nice chord of humility and lightness in your conversational style ! It’s good not to be too dismissive of yourself ! Whilst at the same time avoiding sounding too full of yourself ! I think you have achieved that although it may in parts be a little negative like when you were unsure of the title fearing it sounded cult like or lame ! I didn’t think it sounded like either ! I think it’s a good name

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